Islamabad: As the sacred month of Rabi-ul-Awwal is underway, homes across the Capital have transformed into serene spaces of devotion, echoing with the melodious recitation of Na’ats, Hamd and Darood-e-Pak.
A quiet but powerful trend is gaining momentum in the Capital this year as well-women-led Milad gatherings held in homes, reflecting a deep-rooted tradition revitalized with contemporary purpose.
This Rabi-ul-Awwal, as homes across the Capital glow with candles, the fragrance of Ittar and voices in unison sending blessings upon the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), it is clear that the tradition of Milad is not only alive but is being lovingly led by the women of the Capital.
In prominent sectors of the Capital, including G-6, G-7, G-9, I-8 and I-9, as well as the elite enclaves of F-6, F-8, F-9 and F-10, living rooms are adorned with green buntings, floral arrangements and twinkling lights, welcoming guests for spiritual gatherings led entirely by women.
In a society where public religious platforms have long been male-dominated, women are finding spiritual space within their homes. These Mehfils are not merely rituals of devotion but also forums for learning, sharing and spiritual reflection.
Talking to reporter, Arifa, a housewife and resident of Sector G-6, said she had been holding Mehfil-e-Milad at her home for the past few years during the holy month of Rabi-ul-Awwal. ‘My home becomes sacred when we gather to remember the Prophet Muhammad (SAWW),’ she shared. ‘It’s more than just a tradition. Through such Mehfils, we connect with the Prophet’s teachings on compassion, humility and unity and pass these values down to our children,’ she added.
Rida, a resident of F-6, told reporter that she was inspired by the growing trend of Mehfil-e-Milad gatherings in the Capital, particularly during Rabi-ul-Awwal. This year, she is also hosting a Mehfil-e-Milad at her home. ‘We have invited a Qaria who lives near our home, along with our neighbours, for this spiritual and holistic gathering. The gathering will begin with Tilawat, followed by Naats. The Qaria will then explain the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad (SAWW) in accordance with Islamic teachings and guidelines. We will also offer collective prayers for the country and the Ummah,’ she said.
‘We will also serve food and give donations to deserving families,’ she added.
Not only housewives, but working women are also holding Mehfil-e-Milad gatherings with religious zeal and fervour.
In a conversation with reporter, Mahira, a resident of G-9, said, ‘Every year, I host a small Milad for 20 to 25 women at my home’, adding, ‘It’s our way of showing love for the Prophet (PBUH). No microphones, no stages-just hearts united in faith,’ she added.
At one such Mehfil in F-10, three generations of women gathered to conduct a Mehfil-e-Milad, continuing the tradition every year.
Anabiya, a grandmother, recalled stories of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) to honour his services in establishing Islam, while her daughter Nisa led Zikr and her two young granddaughters recited Naats during the Milad. ‘It’s not just religious-it’s educational. We learn how the Prophet (PBUH) treated people with justice and mercy. It inspires us to lead better lives,’ they shared.
These domestic Mehfils are also fostering a renewed sense of community bonding. Neighbours who rarely find time to connect are now sharing spiritual moments, food and prayers. Guests often bring homemade sweets, dates and flower garlands, adding to the celebratory yet sacred ambience.
Despite the use of modern tools, the message remains timeless: love for the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), emulation of his Sunnah, and the spiritual upliftment of households and communities.
